I was talking with a friend last night. And I couldn't help but to mention to her some of the positives of W moving out a month ago. Things I really didn't expect.
1. My W was the primary cook in our home. But it seems that S13 and I eat far less fast food now, than when she was here.
2. When W left, I thoroughly cleaned the home. I was the one always cleaning up. It would bug me when she and SIL would mess It up a room after I cleaned it up hour's after the fact. So the house stays clean now. So S13 and myself clearly are not the ones making a mess.