How do I get things right?

[Lovelyp]

He also says he talks to other women and ignore my pleas as a way of regaining control because he feels he is loosing his privacy and too controlled.

But I didn't tell him or scare him into doing anything.for some reason he just did. He gave me his passwords after I found out he was communicating with his ex girlfriend. I'm not someone who makes threats but I really wanted to leave because I was already unhappy anyway