P.S. to previous post, one has to understand Doodler's sense of humor......to appreciate it, which leaves me quite concerned about myself. grin Sorry, I had a very late night....or very early morning, not sure which. I will strive to behave myself and get back to serious business at hand.

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Sandi,

Speaking as a man. Even though I know the issues were there before OM came in the picture. But I realize that nothing we do will make a difference until OM is out of the picture. So yes finding ways to get rid of OM tends to become apart if the plan. Then when he gone we can proceed to win W back with our changes.


Tread, I understand what you are saying. I really do. Maybe my daughter could have reported her H's infidelity to the military, especially since she was pregnant, but it would not have changed the thing that made him cheat. He was a serial cheater.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!