I agree. It is not classified information , just some info about some job details. You are absolutley correct. I have expended an enormous amount of energy dwelling on him. Energy i could have spent working on my self. I know i was running down the wrong rabbit hole and i regret it. From tomorrow onward I will begin detachment and working on self. She needs to see what she is giving up to this individual. I hope i have not done too much damage and can correct the course this is on.

As far as they way i would like to go, I would like to begin doing the things i need to do , as told by you and Sandi, to get this back on track and save the M if it is not too late. I just hope i haven't done too much irreversible damage.


The Affair is the first for the W, so I have no idea how long it could last. The way she is talking, it is forever and she loves him, he is her soulmate.
I'll attempt to begin the detachment process tomorrow, and make some strides toward GAL. i was spiralling bad and need to stop before impact.


M 51 W 46
D14 S13
M 16yrs
T17yrs
BD 06/25/17
OM Confirmed 06/25/17, ILYBNILWY
Did Sep for 1 month, moved back in due to W Finances