Any Advice?

[25yearsmlc]

your w's embroiling your son into the gifts she bought for OM and her request he hide this from you, in plain old lousy. $h1tty behavior. Period.

I wasnt palnning on using the A as the ain focus of turning him in. He is a Missile tech, senior enlisted, Chief in the Navy assigned to Trident subs.

I read everything below and it undermines this^^ statement. You did indeed assemble classified information to injure OM. The possible use for blackmail is not good for you, btw. It's one of the reasons gays and adulterers used to be denied clearances - fear of blackmail.

If you are saying "oh, but I"m not 'blackmailing" Om, I'm just hurting him under the guise of national security",

I don't buy that plus the assembling of said classified info is a problem for you.

You're human and allowed to get angry. But don't kid yourself about your motivations.


He has at least a top secret clearance due to the type of missiles he works with, which has been badly compromised by this affair. He has told my W details of his job that he should not have, which i have copies of.

do you see the problem ^^^^here???


I intended to go after the clearance. He violated the regulations to retain it, and stands to lose it for good. It would hinder his career now and in the future when he pursues that high paying job with Boeing, martin marietta, or lockheed martin. I figured that was enough to shake him and make him decide.

if you are threatening him with the "stop OR ELSE" that is blackmail/extortion. And if it's to punish him after the fact, at least admit it.

You should see a lawyer about the information you are keeping, btw.

- I know the military is weak on adultery, but when teamed with the clearance i think it would have changed the game.

do you see what you are saying here? Your goal

I went soi far as to put together a fie with all the relevant texts, photos, and call ogs. I [b]contacted the Office of my congressman and gave them a rough outline. They agreed to help if i proceeded. so I wasted a lot of time and effort on this[/b].

wow, you went way farther than anyone around. You have not thought this out.

1) you think the Congressman's office it going to "help you" you are sorely mistaken.

IF they do anything it'll be for their own political ends and nothing else.

2) And your identity will be exposed.

3) If you are claiming some sort of whistle blower status it won't take long for OM"s lawyer to show the real motivation on your part. Motivation goes to credibility.

It's not as if what you sent to the congressmen is protected information -

4) I really think you need to see a Lawyer and stop telling people.