Any Advice?

[joejoe1]

GW,

You are a great man and your wife has taken advantage of that to the fullest. She is bold in her statements. I really feel once you truly walk away she will def feel it. She hasn't have the chance to live without you and I can tell from the statements she is making.

IMHO, I really feel as though she would not make those statements if she felt like you were fed up and done. She knows what you wants. But once you take yourself away as an option, her statements and boldness will die. Once you longer respond and quill those statements she will wither. She is on a super high horse and you have placed her there trying to be the best husband you could be. This is going to sound harsh but she needs to be humbled. She is showing your son gifts she purchased the OM, you need to put you foot down and tell her to keep you son out of this. He shouldn't be a witness to this.

You have to protect him, it's your duty. I'm in the Army as well, but reading what 25 wrote, it makes me rethink the turning him especially if you are doing if for revenge. You have a tough decision on your hand with that one. But I know and from the sound of it, you are starting to get tired of it.

You deserve better! Period! Your deserve respect! Period! Please take some respect back, because she is walking all over you right now.

Something you might can do is pack up all of her things, put them in boxes and put them all in the garage. Take down all the pictures of you all and put those in boxes as well. Tell her she needs to go. Show her you are not playing. Take her computer and set it up in the garage if it can be setup out there and tell she can talk all she wants, but it won't be in this house.