I wasnt palnning on using the A as the ain focus of turning him in. He is a Missile tech, senior enlisted, Chief in the Navy assigned to Trident subs. He has at least a top secret clearance due to the type of missiles he works with, which has been badly compromised by this affair. He has told my W details of his job that he should not have, which i have copies of. I intended to go after the clearance. He violated the regulations to retain it, and stands to lose it for good. It would hinder his career now and in the future when he pursues that high paying job with Boeing, martin marietta, or lockheed martin. I figured that was enough to shake him and make him decide. That and he'd feel like the drama was too much and piss off. He obviously is afraid of this outcome, very afraid. He has expressed this fear to my W multiple times. On BD, the first thing he told her was to beg me not to turn him in, not oh [censored] we are caught. I know the military is weak on adultery, but when teamed with the clearance i think it would have changed the game.
I went soi far as to put together a fie with all the relevant texts, photos, and call ogs. I contacted the Office of my congressman and gave them a rough outline. They agreed to help if i proceeded. so I wasted a lot of time and effort on this.
M 51 W 46 D14 S13 M 16yrs T17yrs BD 06/25/17 OM Confirmed 06/25/17, ILYBNILWY Did Sep for 1 month, moved back in due to W Finances