MLC or WAS... either way, I'm here

[peacetoday]

A lot of MLC is in the unknowing state
Not knowing what to do
whats going to happen
its a long wait to watch unfold
getting as much information and watching H movements back and forth
GAL
and
at the same time grieving , counseling, working on self, finding new activities and friends, dealing with MLCer craziness

for some of us going out to work for the first time in a while
raising kids alone
its all new and it takes time
so just keep going doing as you are , trusting your instincts, getting information and watching the situation
watch the credit cards if you share joint accounts, try to separate finances because they will rack up debt and yes they have their new dreams with the ow, it hurts but its all part of the crises

and
I can tell my XH had all the same dreams with his new younger wife back at the start of MLC

fast forward to now many years later-
he is is miserable and wanting to divorce her but has no where to go and no one left in his life

Hang in their friend