Speaking as a man. Even though I know the issues were there before OM came in the picture. But I realize that nothing we do will make a difference until OM is out of the picture. So yes finding ways to get rid of OM tends to become apart if the plan. Then when he gone we can proceed to win W back with our changes.
Tread,
Yeah bro!!! You're spot-on.
And you have to admit, despite societal norms, we all just want to kick the OM's @ss real good and then go have a beer.