25YRSMLC........I don't think your reply was to me, but just in case anyone thinks I am in favor of reporting the OM, I am not. I was confused by some of the posts and thought he had already reported the OM.

There have been very few situations that I would suggest exposure, and this is not one of them.

I tend to post more to LBH newcomers, so I am not sure if exposure is more of the male thinking, or not. The men see OM as being the problem. Remove the problem and he gets his W back, right? But it does not remove the problem. The problem started before OM entered the picture.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!