can you explain the temp test for me? she is nasty if i bring up the A but if i just go on about normal business shes nice as hell, like it never happened. the fear i have with exposing the OM is that it might wreck everything for good. Any thoughts on this issue?
Not sure who or what you mean by "exposing" the OM. Have you read the DB books?
If you mean to expose the A to 3rd parties (as opposed to simply confronting your spouse)
then you are 1) taking a huge chance of it backfiring.
I have seen it ruin/harm the chances of a recon. In the few m's that have survived the exposure - it was NOT because of the exposure, and surviving it is not the same as saying it helped.
and
2) not following the DB tenets.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
