Originally Posted By: Raysd6
Text exchange with WW last night:

Me: The last 27 years I’ve always been at your side
WW: I know
WW: I know no one would ever love me like you do

****** Ray, why are you having a this text exchange? What does your statement even mean?

My head is spinning on this one. What does that statement mean? Where is her mind?

******Ray her mind is at: She knows you love her but she doesn't feel the same right now. My IC told me this is never about love, it's how the other person feels in the relationship.


My first inclination was to respond with:
"Then why are you throwing it all away?"

I haven't responded yet and don't know if I will.

**** Great don't respond

Also don't know what to make of:
WW: Refusing to leave "the marital bed". Worst thing you could say

********She's just bullying you. She knows she is in control. My guess she never was in the marriage. Feels empowering to her and she is enjoying it.

How do you change it? You let her go.