Park - thank you for the in depth analysis of your sitch. Nothing is too lengthy on this board, it is great to read other peoples stories and experiences.

I just read you posts so I am kind of soaking it all up; sorry I do not have a lengthy response myself.

I do have a question for anyone here as well. My W is in a EA (possibly PA - never confirmed); and the person lives states away. This has no bearing on anything correct. She is still involved with somebody else; as such, I need to treat it as an A; and continue all the great motivational tools discussed within these last two pages of posts.

M:30 W:28
T:9 MR:2.5
NoKids
Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16
Move back in: 1/17
BD: 8/15
She moved out: 9/1