So sorry for what you are going through. You are getting great advice from Sandi, Parkema and Joejoe1. Dont try to trivialise the EA. Detach, go to the gym, clear your mind and GAL. There is nothing that makes a woman panic than to see the H happy and seem to be doing well without her. She seems to be testing your temperature and trying to be nice for a reason.
M 11 Dated for 4 years before then Me 35 H 39 D 10 BD Feb 2016 A 2015 Dec I was never in a R with the OM. Had a one night stand & I stopped contact immediately I confessed the A to H and we went for MC
