Well, today marks 2 weeks since the most recent events noted in my original post.

Also two weeks of dead silence. Feels like 6 months. I did send an 'all business' text a couple days ago saying the shared expense account needs funds. W did not respond, nor did she make a deposit (yet?). I'm about to take a couple hundred dollars out of that account which will leave very little in there; I guess I'll send one more reminder this coming weekend...?

The folder of her mail/bills w/ my accompanying note still sits where I put it (see p. 5 of this thread for details). I am 99.9% sure she viewed the bills/mail/note but left them in the folder here. Her bills now total nearly $2,600 and she seemingly continues to ignore them. Whatever.

Detaching/GALing going ok, just ok not great. Still working on that.

How/when do I determine whether this step is/isn't working, or is this just 'it' - she might or might not reach out and it is what it is, either way?


Me48
W46
D22
D20
T30
M28
BD/PA revealed 05/2017
W moved out 06/2017
DB started 9/6/2017