Any Advice?

[gw5263]

Sandi,
yes, it is an in house separation. She originally rented an apartment and I ended up living in it due to the children. My son has aspbergers autism and is very active, and the small apartment restricted his movements and was not good for him. I moved back into our house because she could not afford to pay the payment and keep up with the bills. She did not think out any of this before hand and was acting on impulse and guidance from the OM. He told her to get me out of the picture because i was hindering communication. He manipulates the hell out of her, and she doesnt realize it. My son heard them facetiming the other day while i was at work and OM told my wife to do what ever she could to stop me from turning him in. I feel like it is the right thing to do, regardless of her threat to hate me forever. Her threats now mean nothing because she had stated a month ago she wanted a life with him and not me anyway, so what difference does it make if she hates me now? Obviously she isnt fond of me or there would be no A. She continuously runs hot and cold, she gets angry as hell when the affair is brought up, and is happy as a lark when there is no0 mention of it. She acts as if this all has nver happened, like it was last year. The only fear i have is the fear that she will not respond to detachment, GAL, and 180 if she knows i turn him in. That will either be her loss to bring her out of the fog or drive her farther in. Her job is being impacted by her actions, and the weirdest thing of all that i have seen is a change in her facial features over the last 6 months. I have photos of her from each month and it is very distinguishable. Not that it has any bearing , it just fits thats she's become someone i dont know.