Any Advice?

[joejoe1]

GW,
The advice I'm giving is not to try and ruin your marriage.

I know all you want to do is get your wife back. All you want is for uour wife is to love you again. All you want is another chance to show your wife that you can be the man she needs. You want the woman you married to act like herself. All you want is for her to see that you are the man for her and not the OM. And going to the OM is such a big mistake.

Let me ask you this, if someone who of told you not to marry your wife, what would you have said? No I love this woman. You would have needed proof to believe she werent the one for you.

Well thats where you wife mind is. She believes that this OM is the one for her. It's her belief.

You have this pain in your heart. Your stomach churns. All you do all day is think, read, blog and try to come up with that one solution or multiple things that Will win your wife back.

You can't eat, sleep or concentrate. You want one thing and only one your wife back.

We have all felt these same feeling Ms. On this forum.

Your job now is to show her that your or the man for her. The only way to do that, is not take her manipulation and crap. This woman is Not Your wife and you have to look at her that way to help out of this fog and save her from this dangerous relation. You wont be able to control her out of it.

This OM is controlling your wife and telling her to control you. Stop them both and take control of them both. YOU HOLD THE TRUMP CARD IN THIS SITUATION. You have all the control and they both are scared.

If your wife leave you because you reported him, you think she wont leave if you don't?