Still here. Still not detached... (Part 2)

[Chris73]

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Just want to say how much I appreciate all the time you've taken to respond to my threads. It's like I have my own personal DB coach! I hope to be able to return the favor to someone else one day when I'm further down this path and (hopefully) wiser.

I really want this to end now. I don't think I'm DB'ing anymore.

So what are you going to do differently then?

I read this almost like a trick question. What IS there to do differently other than GAL while continuing to detach, validate, set boundaries, and be a good dad? The only difference is whether or not I've fully let go in my heart. And I think this just happens on its own as time passes.

I suppose I just have to tell myself that it's ok to decide NOT to decide what to do if she comes back. That's a bridge that doesn't need to be crossed until we come to it.