Chris,

That's exactly where I am now. And in my mind, it's the LRT. It's NC. It's dropping the rope. It's treating your w like she is your XW. It's GAL like crazy, including making concrete steps about your solo future. It's taking your eyes off her and the situation and keeping your eyes on you and your kids and your bright future. All easier said than done.


Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving