What consequence will he set by telling her if she disrespect the home and marriage by talking to him? Take her phone away? Kick her out? She doesnt have to leave.
Boundaries must be logical. And setting a boundary t Like that wont be logical.
Something you can do is give a stern choice.
"You have two options, stop talking to him and stay or continue talking to him and move out."
You gave her options? It's her decision to choose.
In this scenario, she will see that you are starting to say bye.
LH is right that I'm new.
I also will tell you that using these techniques take time to understand, you will be good.
It's your decision and we are here to support.
M:37 W:37 T:11 M:10 S17, S13, S10, S4 BD:06/28/17 OM confirmed 07/20/17 Recon the M 10/29/17 Working hard:2gether
Onward and forward
This process is not a sprint it's a marathon! Patience, Patience, Patience.
