Help needed from Far-east.

[joejoe1]

You are the Number 2 in her life. So you want to be number 2? You are going to have to detach. It's going to be hard. You have to get your balls back. You have allowed to much and she is not going your balls back to you without a fight.

She has to have some type of lost coming from your direction. IMO you need to kick her out the Martial bedroom and stop kissing and hugging her. That shows you except what she is doing. Stop excepting it. Tell her "you want except the disrespect from her anymore." This comment is for you. You are protecting yourself. What you have allowed your wife to do shows no respect for yourself. Gain your respect back first, detach, and do things that make you happy(GAL(Get a life)).

Read detaching, because it has to be done with love.

You will stumble, just keep trying.