Help needed from Far-east.

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I read the book and most of forums in here.

I should not allow my WW to go see OM easily. I tried to stop her from going but she said let her go she miss him. She said that OM will leave this country at the end of this month. If I let her I still got a chance more than him. (He got insecure from time to time b/c he is not OK that me and my wife still live together.) But if I won't she will end with me right now. I chose to let her.

At lease, she always tell me everything that happen between her and OM. However, she told OM that we are not sleeping the same room(we are still kissing and hugging), go to work in different car, stop going anywhere just 2 no more. She fear that if OM knows that me and my wife still doing things together he will get mad. She hides and lies a lot of info from him.

Before she went to see him(2 days ago) I asked her to text me where her and OM stay so, I don't have to worry and I can keep track on her if sth. bad happen. She never did. I did not contact her either.

Tonight, she is coming back home from seeing him. I am at the restaurant near by. I'd like to have a quick advice before I go back home.

How should I act with her from tonight on?
1) Sleep together or not
2) Disappoint that she didn't call or not
3) Be cold or be neutral

I deeply appreciate whoever reply me on such as a short time.

Regards,