A few days ago she finally (after months) told me just how I had hurt her. She claims that it was all financially. She claims that I judge all of her spending all while I buy anything I want and that she must work multiple jobs so that I don't hold anything over her head. She also mentioned that I make financial demands of her even though I know she is working as hard as she can. Am I guilty of this activity? Yes and I even verified it with my best friend. Once verified, I apologized to her. She started crying and said that it doesn't matter and that nothing will change.

Since then two things seem to be occurring: 1) The W has started to get curious about what I'm up to. Last night she made the comment that I always seem to be busy. 2) She has exchanged her anger for hurting. I've caught her crying numerous times all by herself and she has cried in front of me twice. When I asked her about the crying she just said that it's too late and she's been hurting for too long. What I would give to heal that hurt!

BD: 5/28/17 "We're like roommates, there is no passion anymore"
Early October she is moving out so she can "think about what she really wants in life"
10/22/17 She's gone