I feel you are doing so well. keep making those changing for yourself and your Ds. I find your threads interesting because you talk about interesting issues.
Leadership is really a key area for a man and areas where men must lead are all interesting.
You just keep on reading and learning. You may also ask close friends who have known you about 2 great qualities about you and 2 shortcomings you have. This helps a lot. I did this with close family and friends and it has given useful suggestions on areas where I am good and where I need to work on.

Well, I am a very active christian and I find the spiritual leadership more interesting. From my understanding God is the author of marriage and he designed it in a way that the husband is the head and must lead. Most men do not know this and women lead and when they do it brings dyfunctionality to the marriage. In most cases women start looking at their pastors as role models and in some cases start desiring them because they yearn for a man who leads in this area. In some cases most Hs just tag along and go to church to please the wife and not in it and women and children can see that. I hope you continue to grow and lead spiritually building a strong relationship with Jesus Christ and studying the bible because as you grow you find so much peace and contentment. This will positively affect every area of your life.


M 11 Dated for 4 years before then
Me 35 H 39
D 10
BD Feb 2016
A 2015 Dec
I was never in a R with the OM. Had a one night stand & I stopped contact immediately
I confessed the A to H and we went for MC