Boy, you said I write allot? smile I think I've caught up on where you are at the moment, but i did skim a little ;-)

Sounds like you are already are onto what H wants to avoid. In my experience, Judges do see through all the games and if they have a good idea that he is hiding assets, he will get roasted. His L probably told him that and thats why he called your brother. I think its as simple as that. As others have said, just let the process work itself out ad for goodness sake don't contact him directly ;-)


Me 51, Wife 44; Married 4; Together 10;
HSD20, XWSD13, XWSS14, XWSS17
Kids Together D4, D1.52
W Moves Out: 03/16/17
W Files : 03/17/17
D Final: 10/23/17