Sorry, this is all bass ackwards. You don't wait to get over her, then start making your life better. You make your life better, and THAT is what gets you moving toward being over her. Along with all of the other things countless posters have urged you to do. THIS^^^^
LC, it's not about "inside out" (- "first I'll feel better and THEN I'll change...")
it is exactly the opposite. You GAL and then you feel better
you behave in more positive ways and THEN you feel more positive. Outside in.
Which is a lot more within our control, btw.
That is why I suggested the TED TALK videos on youtube (22 min each) by Amy Cuddy and Sean Achor
about positive psychology. IT's not psycho babble, they present empirical data that supports their theses.
Can't hurt.
If seeing your IC feels "pointless", then get another one. Keep trying until you find one that helps you. They are out there, and nothing in your sitch is exotic or too hard for any IC who knows what they're doing.
Get going!
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