MLC or WAS... either way, I'm here

[LAJar]

The mortgage is in both of our names. Before we purchased the home, we agreed he would pay the mortgage and I would pay all other bills relating to the home (gas, electrcity, water, etc.) as well as a loan I took out for home renovations. Even as recently as a month ago, he said he'd still take care of it. I'm not surprised by his given all that has happened

Legally/financially I don't know if this holds any baring on our situation. He has already filed, just not served me, so I would think that would take care of that. Emotionally/mentally, I'm not there yet. I feel like he wants this, he should see the process through. I will be doing enough getting the house ready to sell and just dealing with this mess in general, I shouldn't have to worry about that as well.

I know only those who have experienced the same will understand. They mean well and aren't pushing anything on me, but I just wondered how others react who aren't in the know when you try to explain MLC.