[quote=Don23] It was us to a T and I feel that she may find it interesting if she knew she wasn't the only one that this happened to. I dont think i could show her, she isnt receptive to anything from me but one of her friends possibly could.

Nope. Won't do you any good. Don, I want you to understand one thing, no video, article, book is going to snap her out of what she is going through.

I just had my three year anniversary of my separation and I am not divorced yet.

Fast your seat belt because you are in for a long, long roller coaster ride of the worst magnitude.

You cannot make anything better while she is in an A. Your goal is to not make anything worse.

Right now for you it is about gaining respect and setting boundaries.