Hmm, so do you think if your H detached from you more and GAL for himself you would have been more incline to see the changes in him? Or become more interested?

It seems the things you wanted from your H after being separated are exactly the opposite from what this forum and the things I have learned from reading Michelle's books are.

After the W dropped the bomb and moved out; it is clear detaching from her is the pathway to re-connection (per this website). But you are saying your H did not do that; he was more pursuant towards you?

Are you still involved with the OM? If not, what caused you to stop? Did you H make you do a no contact type of agreement?

M:30 W:28
T:9 MR:2.5
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Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16
Move back in: 1/17
BD: 8/15
She moved out: 9/1