Originally Posted By: LH19
Originally Posted By: Teppo
o I want to tell my S that it's not my decision to get a D, but that I agree that I have to work with the W on making it work for him. Thoughts?


Can you be more specif why you want to tell your son it's not your decision?


LH19,

I don't want to tell my S about the D, that's on my W. I want to be there when she does tell him so I can say that I don't agree with the D, but that we have to make it work and that he'll be ok. As Holding put it, I don't want my S to think that this decision represents my values and view of marriage, which I take seriously.


Married 9, Together 13, Divorce in Progress
M: 44, W: 44, S: 7
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/19/17