I would suggest that you go dark and GAL. When you stop pursuing her and trying to make her stay with you she will have time to think through and will decide what she needs. You reporting her to the millitary wont help you or her.


M 11 Dated for 4 years before then
Me 35 H 39
D 10
BD Feb 2016
A 2015 Dec
I was never in a R with the OM. Had a one night stand & I stopped contact immediately
I confessed the A to H and we went for MC