Its strange. I am detached most of the time, then on occasion I catch myself caring. Then I detach all over again.
I've been following your threads and I think you spend most of your time attached. It's not just that you care sometimes, it's that you are always worried about what she is doing. You HAVE TO focus on you, and your son, you can't focus on her so much. If you want to fix your M, she'll never respect you when you hang on everything she does. If you DON'T want to fix your M, then all this is doing is making it hurt more, and for longer.
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So how long have you been involved with the woman your dating? And what made you do so this soon?
Four months. I didn't intend to be seriously dating, especially not so soon. I didn't intend to have anything happen. I just wanted someone to talk to and get out of the house with. Instead I met a female version of myself, and things just kept getting better and better.
