I was just mentioning that I can now understand why the LBS often don't want to take the WS back after its all said and done. This behavior is not something you want from a spouse after they left you. Hell even if you recon do you discuss what the WS did or just treat as if This was in their past like it all some past relationship. Guess I am just curious that's all. But I supposebthis mught be why some WW feel they can never return to the MR.
Sweeping it under the rug doesn't work. Treating it as though it was just something in her past, won't work. If the couple reconciles, they should have a pro marriage therapist that works with couples healing from an affair.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
