Spoke to DB coach today. She patterned-matched my W's odd behavior to an MLC.
For some reason, I'm overcome with anger. I'm glad she's out of town and not back till tomorrow.
I think the reason I'm pissed is that the pattern typically involves OM or some kind of EA that looks more attractive than the H and family. W keeps insisting that there isn't anything going on, and aside from the professional older skype friend on the other side of the world, I haven't found anything to prove otherwise. I think trying to bust that up will backfire big time, and I'm not sure there's any fire there anyway. She offered to introduce me to him...just not sure what I'd say.
Also she has been commiserating more with her college BFF lately, who is going through marital problems of her own. This stuff feeds itself.
Kind of thought I'd be the one to have an MLC. I don't like being on this end of it.
Coach gave some good advice, mostly focused on rebuilding the friendship. I'm not super into that today, maybe that will change when W returns late tomorrow.
