Let me condense this a little, heres the current situation.
Wife is involved with OM over the phone. they have physicaly met once for 7 days, and upon her return she says she loves him and wants a life with him. Currently living in the same house in separate rooms. She is unwilling to give him up. Says she emotionally disconnected with me in October due to me ignoring her needs and making her feel unloved and unwanted. Says he just might be her soulmate. Now tells me that if she finds out i turned him in to the military in an attempt to end the A she will hate me forever. Im detaching, any other suggestions?


M 51 W 46
D14 S13
M 16yrs
T17yrs
BD 06/25/17
OM Confirmed 06/25/17, ILYBNILWY
Did Sep for 1 month, moved back in due to W Finances