At this point, I am choosing to ignore his texts. Anniversary is this week & I will be going out of town. I will unblock his phone when I return. At that point, I will need to address the house situation.
He definitely does not care about anything and that includes me, my son, the house, etc. It's a hard pill to swallow, but it is what it is.
I've had two consultations and am working on scheduling a third. They were very preliminary and time was limited, so I know I need to keep interviewing until I find one I feel comfortable with. H is definitely trying to call the shots and what's even more unbelievable about that is he's trying to make decisions based on nothing. I don't trust H as far as I can throw him. Just because I still love him, doesn't mean I'm blind to what he's capable of. These last 2 months have really showed me I can't close my eyes to anything.
I appreciate your thoughts and reinforcement that I need to protect myself. It is sad things have to come to this.
M:43 H:44 M:10 T:14 S:26 BD:7/21/17 H files for D:7/31/17 (haven't been served) PA:8/30/17