Trust me I am doing alright with detaching. Not completely there yet. But I have been doing my own thing and not worrying about W. This was more the realization on how low my W has possibly gone. My W would berate people for even joking about doing these things. And now this is a serious possibly or something that she has done?
I was just mentioning that I can now understand why the LBS often don't want to take the WS back after its all said and done. This behavior is not something you want from a spouse after they left you. Hell even if you recon do you discuss what the WS did or just treat as if This was in their past like it all some past relationship. Guess I am just curious that's all. But I supposebthis mught be why some WW feel they can never return to the MR.
