Still here. Still not detached... (Part 2)

[Chris73]

Hi Joseph. I went back to my original post and re-read what I wrote and you're right. I made it sound like she didn't give me a choice. But she did. She called me to ask before she made the plans to work, and I agreed.

I think the whole reason why I posted the encounter here is that initially, I was feeling like she took advantage of the situation knowing I wouldn't say no. But then realized that I was just mad at myself for being a doormat and being afraid to make other people mad at me.

I guess in my defense I always go back to those moments when she would rage at me and threaten all kinds of legal action and pressure. Since then we've settled into an amicable solution for the divorce and she's told me that she said those things in anger. But I'm still scared to rock the boat while everything is still in limbo.