Thanks you guys. You're both right. It really was a favor she was asking me for. And I could have said no.
In my mind I'm placing a higher value on her working than my going out and having fun. If we were still together evaluating it in that way might have some merit. But like you said before, this is what real life is like after a marriage breaks up. We're just a couple more months away from ending this "nesting" arrangement. I think things will be easier once that happens.
Having a really hard time dealing with my anger today. Just got back from the gym and it's definitely reduced but I still feel like punching something...
M46 W48 M11 T14 S11 D8 BD: 2016/05/27 In-home separation: 2016/11/23 Nesting: 2017/06/11 W moves out: 2018/01/07 W goes public with OM: 2018/07/12 I ask for a divorce: 2018/12/14