Before you go shooting off your mouth, you need to ask yourself what you can do if this happens again. Don't get into a tit for tat situation.
I have not shot my mouth off yet. I am trying to formulate how I will respond. Something along the lines of:
ON x date, you were x late On x date, you were not present and sent a proxy to receive our children. Per our agreement, I am to be notified if you are not able to receive our children, and I am to have first chance to spend time with them if you cannot be with them.
I do not disrespect your time with the children, and have been and present every single exchange, and I expect you to do the same going forward.
I HAVE to say something, otherwise she is just going to continue to walk all over me.
Married 9: Together 11 M:37 W:35 S:2 D:7 Bomb dropped 6/3/2017 W moved out 7/1/2017 Separation Filed: 8/1/2017 Modified to Divorce: 8/21/2017 Divorced: 10/5/2017