With respect to telling your kids about the D, Michelle says that the LBS shouldn't lie to their kids by saying that they agree on the D. I want to tell my S that it's not my decision to get a D, but that I agree that I have to work with the W on making it work for him. That we both love him and that this isn't his fault.

Thoughts?

Married 9, Together 13, Divorce in Progress
M: 44, W: 44, S: 7
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/19/17