Maika - Yes, you are confused. I am basically trying to find a scenario which is almost identical with mine....only further down the road and the marriage was fixed.

It can be from the H or the W perspective.

Love - your story is very similar to mine; just from the W point of view. That is what I was looking for (along with others if possible). So would you say you had the A with the OM because you H was passive, co-dependent, showed lack of boundaries with you (basically what ever you said goes)?


M:30 W:28
T:9 MR:2.5
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Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16
Move back in: 1/17
BD: 8/15
She moved out: 9/1