It sounds like you might have a shot at repairing things. Something the vets always say is take your time when it comes to piecing. Don't rush it, or you'll find yourself back here again.
There's a retreat called Retrouvaille that many people here have highly recommended.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18