You did not hijack! you sympathized. And I am sorry you are in the position to sympathize with me. I understand exactly what you mean. NO matter how many years out we are from all of this, we continue to do work, the people who left us are still the same and they get what they want. We don't even want them to fail or be unhappy. It's about US now and how we deserve what we work hard for. I read your recent posts and I can feel your eagerness with college guy. Your eagerness comes from true love, not desperation. I do believe that what is meant for us will not miss us.
Ginger,
Thanks for your comments. I do have an eagerness when it comes to college guy and I'm REALLY working hard to rein that in, because I'm not sure he shares that same eagerness. I had thought, initially, that he did, but I'm beginning to think maybe I misread the whole thing. I know he cares for me very much, but time will tell. I agree that what is meant to be will find a way and maybe there is still hope. That remains to be seen. I'm not giving up hope, just trying to pull back and be realistic.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
