JDub, it doesn't change what you do. You keep improving yourself. All she was saying is it reduces your chances. I'm getting blamed for everything, but I haven't come across anything that says I should do something differently. This is also why you need to do changes for you. then if things don't work out, you have a better you to go through life with.
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