What are you planning on doing? Listen, I don't have any evidence of my WAS having an A, but I know she's been exploring. I can't imagine how I would feel if I found out she had a EA/PA for reals. I think I would also probably feel done.
I know this is huge!! But, don't think of dropping DB/DR. It is the best chance of you making out of this whole and with strength. Stay strong friend!
