So back in the house. Tonight will be the first night she and I are both in the house. She doesn't want me to sleep in the bed and I told her to bad, she can sleep on the couch or with one of the kids if she doesn't like it. We'll see how tonight goes. She has no interest in stopping the affair and now that the OM's wife knows they are on the way to divorce. I will probably set up a meeting with an attorney tomorrow and start the filing process. I would have preferred she gave the marriage a chance but that just doesn't seem possible and other than having the kids half of the time, i am probably better off without her.
Me: 43 Wife: 37 2 Kids: (8yr old B, 5yr old G) OM Discovered Mid Aug '17
