Choosing to find a psychologist and work with him was my decision. That is the first rule of getting out of the Nice Guy Syndrome.
Being self-confident? I have achieved that with a psychologist before. Therapy is something I believe helps. When you face depression, that is the message you get as well. Look after yourself first. I have not been able to master tgat in life. That I know of. But I am where I am and that is OK.
Me: 43, W: 43 M: 16, T: 18 D - 7, D - 7 ILUB: 26 August 2014 Still living together