My IC told me she couldn't even do EMDR therapy on me because I was basically getting re-traumatized repeatedly by living in the house with a remorseless "offender."
EMDR has helped me SO MUCH with helping me deal with my W. Turned me into a less reactive, more calm human, and to take W's mental haywire-ness in stride.
I know that you are being constantly traumatized, but after you get through a couple of the next hurdles in front of you, I hope you'll have the chance to work off the trauma.
I so wish my WAW would consider EMDR, it would help her better manage her anxieties. She has chosen meds, job changes, getting a dog, wanting a D, etc....but unless she does the work, it will be a constant case of "no matter where you go, there you are."
