Thanks for sharing that, Cadence. My next step is mediation, and I highly suspect my STBXW has BPD. So this was good advice for me as well.

Me-47,XW-43
S13,S16
M:18
BD:4-23-17
W filed:7-17-17
(5 months of in-house separation hell)
W moved out:1-6-18
D granted:2-15-18
Decree signed:3-29-18

Your future is out there. Go find it.